A true indie film through and through, Elephants takes an authentic look at a modern relationship in a "slice of life" style, peeling away intimate layers to ask the question: how do you know when someone's right for you or rather, when it's time to move on? After a three year stint in prison, the charming but hot-headed Lee Riley returns to Los Angeles to win back the girlfriend he left behind, alluring and headstrong Kate Caldwell. Despite having moved on and grown into an independent woman, Kate agrees to let him stay while he looks for an apartment and soon enough, the pair falls back into their old patterns, losing themselves in an ardent relationship once more. Yet, as the free-spirited nature of their romance starts to tear down the life Kate has built, she finds herself losing her new identity but unable to let Lee go. Likewise, Lee starts to wonder if the buoyant memories from their past are preventing him from growing up and becoming something more
你要是愿意move on 那就一起往前走
你还是不愿意，我们就不带你玩了。把你关进监狱里。把谷子和秕子分开来。
有人自发自愿的做那个时刻挑出秕子的黑猫警长，比如姐姐，比如姐姐的老板查克。
他们的成果就是凯特和姐姐的丈夫约翰。
拍的挺好的，关于爱和争吵。只有爱的那么深的才可以因为屁大点事吵得死去活来也会瞬间和好。也会买来体位指南，一个一个试。
其实很简单的道理，长征爬雪山过草地为了活下去可以吃草根啃树皮，尊严都不要了，抛弃真爱也没啥不可以。如果抛弃真爱可以让自己变得更好。也许那不是真爱呢？比如生活中甜的、好吃的、好玩的，撸管、毛片、药、舒服的床、幻想自己是个怀才不遇的音乐家、好看的脸，健美的身材……特么好像没什么不能抛弃的。
所以最后男的走了。